Are you terrified of public speaking? Do you want to
overcome your fear and give a Speech that awes the crowd? Then this article is
for you.
Did you know that most people fear speaking in front of a
group more then they fear death? Yes, it’s true and death seemed to be an
option for me when I found out that I had to give a speech in front of my class
for my final. I started sweating bullets as soon as the words were spoken but
pushed it all behind me knowing that I had 8 weeks before that all took place.
Those weeks seem to fly by and before I knew it I had 4
hours 33 minutes and 10 seconds left before I awaited my doom. I contemplated
skipping my speech and taking a C in the class because I felt that I just could
not do it. When the time came and my number was called I found out that after
getting up in class that giving my speech was not that bad. I got a 96% on my
speech, instead of getting a C; I got a B+ in the class. All my hard work paid
off!
Here are the guidelines that I used and you can use next
time you want to get an A on your speech:
1.Eye contact- Some people have a hard time doing this! But
if you’re looking at everything else other than your audience they will know
and zone out. Stare at their eyebrows instead of their eyes. They won’t know
the difference.
2.Calm, relaxed feeling- Everyone gets butterflies!
Especially right before the speech. Take deep breathes, walk or meditate if you
can.
3.Vocal energy- Speak up! You need to get the whole audience
involved. If the back of the room can’t hear you they will not pay attention to
you and that may affect your speech.
4.Story telling- As far as I am concerned this may be the
most important one! The audience does not want to be lectured to; they want to
feel like they are along for the journey with you. People love stories!
5.Organization- This one is also important, write out your
main points on flashcards. It helps keep you on track.
6.Preparation- The best way to prepare is to practice in
front of your family and friends. They can give great feedback and help you
improve. Read your speech a couple times everyday so you can get familiar with
your topic, but don’t memorize it you will know it so well that you will say
your speech and not say anything else.
7.Know your audience- Make sure your speech is appropriate
for your audience. Find out what they might want to hear about.
8.Get the audience involved- Let the audience ask questions!
They will love you for it and enhance your speech.
9.Visual Aids- This does not have to be extravagant! Power
Point is a greatvisual aide and it is easy to use. Be careful not to talk to
your visual aide.
Use these 9 points and you will get your well deserved A!
Remember to dress appropriately for the audience and watch that you’re not walking all
over the room. Good luck , you can do it!
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